We are creatures of habit. If we know that we’re going to do something once, we do it again. This is why when you get into a new setting, you’re much more likely to stay there, and this is why you’re likely to be happier there. This is also why when you’re about to do something, you’re much more likely to do it.
The habit that keeps you on your ass is the habit that keeps you in your old setting. I’m pretty sure this is one of the biggest reasons why I am unable to quit my old job. I moved to the Bay Area from Denver in the Spring of ’09 and I’ve been here ever since. It’s not that I dislike the work I do at my new job, I just couldn’t leave.
I just think it is so sad when I think about how many people go to work and then come back and do something different, and theyre not happy there. I think it is the same for a lot of people.
I understand that most people have a hard time leaving their old jobs, but you cannot simply throw out your old way of life and expect to find satisfaction in it. It will always come with its own costs and hurdles. I think that just as you must be willing to move to another city or country to find a new job, you must also be willing to change your social scene to do the same. It is a difficult thing to do, but the rewards are worth it in the end.
It’s not always easy, but I believe that there are times when you must change. I know I feel this way when I move to a new city. So many times, I am so excited to meet new people, and then I’m so unhappy to leave the old friends I have made.
I think this is why people move to a new place, it is to change, but also to meet new people — not necessarily with all the best intentions, but with the idea that they will grow and grow. It is a very difficult thing to do, but it is what you have to do if you are hoping to be happy and successful in your new environment.
I think it is important to remember that some of us are moved by the idea of growth and change, and we may like to move to a place where that can happen. But a lot of us are moved by the idea of death, and for a lot of us that means we are moving to a place where we will not be as happy as we were in the old place.
Well, we can’t have that, right? So we will just keep waiting for the next time we will be able to move to a place we love. We will wait for the new house to be built, and we will wait for the new car to be bought, and for the new job to be posted. Oh wait, maybe we will die instead.
We are all living our own version of the afterlife. The point is, we all move to a place where we are not as happy as we were in the old place. We are just moving to a place where we are not as happy as we were in our old house or car as well. It’s a way of making the transition easy, without dying.
That’s just one example, but this is the spirit that is guiding us today. Every time we change our lives, we are changing our reality. Our reality is a series of places. The places we were in the old life are gone. We are moving, but it is not necessarily to a place we love. There are no happy places, just places we were happy. The new reality is a place where we are not as happy as we used to be.